Is love suppose to be based on Color or Ethnicity? the truth is that love is not supposed to be base on these things but on the potent chemistry that is ignited when men and women she some compatible features to get romantically involved. But that is not my case, for ethnicity have deprived me of my so called happily ever after, guys judge me with my state of origin " guy, that girl is form del...

A recent review of studies found that religious belief is inversely associated with intelligence. That is, more intelligent people are generally less likely to be religious. The reasons for this are not fully understood, although some of the main theories were discussed in Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic’s article. Dr Chamorro-Premuzic also made the intriguing suggestion that the relationship be...

Over the many years that I’ve been practicing therapy, I’ve found that couples that are struggling in their relationships often succumb to the default mode of silence. Sometimes, it’s one person who defers to the unspoken, and at times it’s actually both. In either circumstance, such silence—not a healthy pause or meditative break—speaks to the absence ...

Another chapter and a new journey begins after saying your “I do’s.” But staying happy during the journey is not like a ‘one size, fits all’ notion. It is not a matter of how much love there is at the beginning, what matters is how much love you have cultivated along the way. To be happy in a relationship is never an easy task. There are rules you follow, princip...

Nearly everyone dreams of starting a business and being their own boss. However, maintaining a business is hard work, and even with the best management and intentions, more often than not, new businesses fail within five years. While a business failure largely affects the owner, it also affects the owner’s spouse. As a spouse there’s several things you can do to help your spouse t...

1.  Being too controlling You may not have even considered yourself as the controlling type, but women sometimes see this differently. Maybe you get jealous of her friends, or tell her not to spend so much time with her friends. You tell her she spends too much money. You tell her that her house is not clean enough. You hinder her from going somewhere she has plans to go. More than a...

When one take under serious consideration the examination of the consequences of unresolved conflict is to enter into a seemingly bottomless dark pit one that had rarely been explored. I will approach the subject by discussing the symptomatic psychological disorder called “projection.” My hope is to bring into the bright light this particular psychological ddefense and ...

A film by Director Malcolm A Benson based on original British Drama with some Nollywood twists. John Ortega loses everything in his quest for justice and to keep his relationship. Written and Directed by Malcolm A Benson. Produced by M A Benson and Matthew C Martino. A Benalex Media Production featuring Darrell Las Quevas, Adi Alfa, Uche Odoputa, Rita Nzelu, Dean Ekperigin, Gary Douglas...

With the divorce rate as high as it is, you must do everything possible to strengthen and protect your marriage. You can’t always have your way or give in to your feelings. You have to discipline yourself to do the right thing. You must do what is in the best interest of your marriage. Here are some fundamental guidelines that can make a huge difference.   1. Be quick to...

Welcome to the new MN. We are happy to announce that the first phase of the planned updates across MN has more or less been completed albeit any possible issues that might arise and a few other bits here and there. In this update, some things have remain the same but many things have changed or been improved as you will find out. Some of the main highlights of this update are...